Freya Response: If your strap clasps are going from horizontal to vertical then you are relying to heavily on your straps for support. The majority of the lift you receive from your bra should come from its band. Most times going down in the band and up in the cup will remedy this issue. However, 36J (your sister size to 38HH) is not available in this range so we suggest trying a style from our sister brand, Elomi. The Elomi Matilda bra (EL8900) features a plunging neckline and sheer cups for a flirty and sexy look! Matilda also features a wide, power-mesh back band for maximum support.
Shantelle from Cheriton
Girl About Town Underwire Side Support Bra