HerRoom Response: We are glad that you love this bra, keep in mind that all brands size differently after a D cup. Check out our brand conversion chart on the Bra Cup Fitting Guide. Also, washing your garment should help soften the lace, check out our Lingerie Care page for tips on washing your lingerie and making it last longer!
Tiffany from Chicago, IL
Curvy Kate Response: It sounds like you need a bra with more coverage under the arm and a larger cup size. Curvy Kate is a full busted (Full Cup) brand and provides less coverage under the arm than full figure brands do for a more youthful look & fit. A Full busted bra provides higher coverage under the arm. This would solve your problem with the spillage on the cup and side as well as having the underwire poke you.