Freya Response: Jay, we hope you will continue to try Freya in the future. For starters, we suggest styles Lacey Full-Busted Underwire Plunge Bra AA4791 and Dolly Underwire Plunge Balcony Bra AA1381 which are both constructed with firmer material in the entire body of the cup, without the lace panel at the top that we think is what you found flimsy. Both are available in 36JJ. Thank you for your feedback!
Jay from Georgia
Freya Response: Lucy, you may have better luck with a plunge style from Freya versus a balcony style, which will give you more coverage at the top of the cup to keep you from “falling out”. For a bra with similar styling that may have more depth in the cup , try Freya Faye Underwire Plunge Balcony Bra AA4201.
LucyZ from Chicago/IL/USA