HerRoom Response: You state that you are also petite in stature. Bras with stays will probably always give you a hard time. We have an area on our site where we identify bras for full figure petite women called petite plus size.
Bali Response: While Bali does not market a bra for short waist individuals we do offer a Bali style called “Live It Up” and it is style #3353.
The “Live It Up” style will not have the stays in the band put panels on the side of the cup for support. You may try this bra as it is available in your size.
Suzanne from Minerva Ohio USA